Wednesday, June 6, 2007

The Democratic Presidential Candidates Discussion on Faith

On Monday evening, June 4, Sojourners and CNN hosted a Democratic Presidential Candidate forum on Faith and Politics with the top three Democratic Candidates, John Edwards, Barack Obama, and Hillary Clinton. The additional Democratic candidates for president were given a forum for discussion during the following hour on the Paula Zahn show. While not a huge CNN fan I am a fan of Sojourners, and decided to watch the forum and give this, one man’s opinion of the events that transpired. I will later on post a video of the highlights of that forum on this article, the link to the transcript of the forum can be read by clicking here.

Before going into my commentary I have to once again give clarification. This is one mans opinion; it is not an endorsement of any political candidate as I haven’t made up my mind as to who I will support. I will say, the issues facing those of faith are far more substantial than many in the church, and many in the press give credit for. I was amazed for example that the ongoing continual issues involved gay marriage, prayer, and abortion. All three are significant issues within the cultures of politics and faith, but they are not the only issues. The leading candidate for both the Democratic and Republican Party at this point are both pro choice candidates. That being said, all of those involved in the political process with faith issues must look at the entirety of the candidates, not just a single issue.

Now an additional note; I am going to make comments that may offend some that is not my intent. I think it important to realize that on my thoughts, I could easily be wrong. My views are a little unique because I am trained in the area of psychology and counseling. One of the things I am knowledgeable of is the ability to read a persons body language, their tones, and actions. I have a pretty good perception, as a result of experience and training as to when a person is being honest or not. I will try to not make statements like, “this person was not honest in their answers and presentation.” Instead I will make comment like, “This person seemed to not be comfortable when answering the question or describing their feelings.”

I will actually be making comment on two programs, and two different sets of candidates, the first program featuring the top three candidates and then the final featuring the remaining candidates. I will comment on how I think the person did, and if the discussion on faith and politics helped or hurt the person.

The initial program featured each candidate for a 15 minute segment. The moderator did an excellent job of asking hard questions, and holding the candidates to their time limit. There was a panel of individuals who would ask questions and a question submitted on line via the internet. The candidate could respond to the question for as long as they wanted, up to their 15 minute time limit. If they answered only one question in that time, that was the only question they were asked.

The first candidate up was John Edwards, the former Senator and Vice Presidential Candidate from South Carolina. I’ll be honest, while providing answers that may displease many fundamental Christians such as his views on Evolution and Creation; I think he did a pretty good job. One of the things I actually liked and appreciated about John Edwards was he answered the questions naturally and focused on the Christian mandate to help the poor. He also referred to the fact that all people are sinners and in need of Christ forgiveness. I believe, among all of the candidates; John Edwards lifted himself up to garnish more respect from me than any other candidate during the debate with the possible exception of one other I will mention later on. He openly spoke about falling away from The Lord, and coming back to Christ later in life. He also spoke openly and I felt quite appropriately about the importance of prayer in his life and the reality that Christ has been able to help him and his family through many tough situations. I have to say at this point before going to the next candidate that in my opinion, he seemed to be the most sincere person on the initial panel. His answers did not seem to be rehearsed or scripted in any way. He stayed on point and did a great job of answering questions. Of all of the candidates presenting on the initial forum, John Edwards likely did the best of any to help his position with many persons of faith voting in the next election. Edwards was the only candidate who was quite open about his opposition to Gays being allowed to get married. He offered up an answer that seemed to be caring, yet at the same time recognizing the traditional perspective of marriage. He did seem to support the concept of civil unions, but also alluded that this should be a church, and state issue.

On a closing note about John Edwards, I must also comment on his ability to relate to the audience. There is little doubt that he received the most applause, and the most laughter of any of the major three candidates. While being able to relate to a group of people is not the most important part of a candidate, he had the ability to make me laugh along with him, while at the same time feeling passionate about the things such as the rebuilding of New Orleans that he was passionate about.

The next candidate on the forum was Barack Obama, the Senator from Illinois. In the past I have seen, and even posted with The Virtual Pew a wonderful scripted presentation on faith and politics given by Obama. I was impressed with that particular presentation and the attitude of Obama. Like most of the Democratic candidates there were issues that would displease some Fundamental Christians. For Obama it seemed to be the issue of Gay Marriage and abortion. Virtually all of the candidates stated we should find ways to greatly reduce the number of abortions. Obama was strong on other points, he was outspoken about the reality of evil, and his support for Israel. Both points that will set well with some conservative and fundamental voters.
Obama spent most of his time answering a single question from Jim Wallis. I have to be honest, I was disappointed. He seemed to ramble and never really addressed the issues until later in his presentation. He did not seem as comfortable with an unrehearsed presentation as he has in the past with a rehearsed presentation. While there were some good ideas related to ways he would help the poor, there didn’t seem to be the passion as exhibited by John Edwards. I was also disappointed that Obama didn’t speak more about his faith and the importance of it. I realize a huge part was due to his addressing of a single question. In the past I have been a part of organizations where many meetings take place with long discussions. There are often long discussions where little ever actually gets done. Obama was doing a lot of talking, but with such a style as to ramble on.

If looking at just this presentation, Obama likely hurt himself with many voters looking at faith related issues. He did work at building bridges between Republicans and Democrats, but he unfortunately seemed to come off more as a politician than someone passionate about the issues. As mentioned earlier, he has done a much better job of this in the past, but this was not his best presentation.

The next candidate was Hilary Clinton. I have to give the moderator props here, right off the bat she hit Hilary up with a tough question regarding the incorporation of faith, and her living in a family where infidelity had been an issue. Hilary did a good job of answering the question and I was impressed. Hillary also gave the best, if not most passionate answer regarding the need to greatly reduce the number of abortions. If listening to just her words, or reading just the transcript of this presentation, I would have had a great deal of respect for what she had to say. That said, watching her was another thing all together; it was obvious that Senator Clinton had rehearsed a great deal of what she was going to say. It didn’t seem to me that there was much passion in the things she was presenting. I do believe she helped her position among many swing voters.

The following program, looking at the additional candidates and faith featured, Chris Dodd, Joe Biden, Bill Richardson, and Dennis Kucinich. An interesting note about the four candidates on the Paula Zahn show is they were all Roman Catholic. While I had liked some of the things I had seen on Bill Richardson, I had been put off by some of the things I had read and heard from Dennis Kucinich. A lot of what I thought would change after watching this exchange. I will focus a little more on this as these candidates were not given the time of those on the first hour.

Paula Zahn brought up with each candidate how their views differed a great deal, and was in fact in opposition with the Catholic Church. Not a single one of these candidates supported their church or their churches position on issues such as gay marriage, and abortion.

The first candidate up was Senator Joe Biden. I have to give him credit; he started out in an open and honest way talking about how he turned his back on God after his first wife and daughter were tragically killed in an accident. While some may have expected a little dishonesty on his part, he was brutally honest. I admire that in a person, a point of honesty in such an emotional and important debate on faith.

Senator Biden also spoke about how he prays the Rosary each day. There was no sense of a personal prayer outside of the Rosary. He also spoke about the concept of forgiveness. He was asked if he was able to forgive the terrorists who flew the planes into the towers on 9/11/01, he stated that while able and easier to forgive others for what they had done to him, he was unable to forgive the terrorists for what they had done.

Senator Biden also made an eloquent argument that as a nation, and as a party, the Democrats have just as much faith, and worship the same God as do many Republicans. On this point Senator Biden did a great job. Unfortunately, I don’t think Senator Biden came off well in the conversation with Paula Zahn, in many ways he didn’t have much emotion, wasn’t personable and while presenting some good objectives, didn’t seem to have passion about those perspectives. I personally believe many of faith will look at this and be turned away from Senator Biden.

The next person up in discussion was New Mexico Governor Bill Richardson. Richardson also a Roman Catholic spoke early on about how his grandmother influenced him when she had him, as a young boy say his prayers each night in Spanish. When asked if he still prayed each day, he dodged the question by stating he still prays and that his Roman Catholic upbringing helped to form his sense of social conscious in the world.

Governor Richardson spoke quite a bit about the “social consciousness” of the church and how that should drive individuals’ actions. He spoke about how Government could also be a strong factor in the establishment of social consciousness. There were several policies he presented here, and it was as if his focus was on the policy with little support of his faith being a catalyst for those views.

When specifically asked about homosexuality and abortion he was in opposition to the views of the Roman Catholic Church. One of the things that surprised me was his strong support for Civil Unions and strong opposition to gay marriage. I couldn’t help but think this seemed to be a political position as his support of the gay community didn’t seem to support his opposition to gay marriage.

When asked about Heaven, Governor Richardson spoke about how he didn’t think of it often because his plate was so full with other things. He changed the conversation very quickly, speaking about how he prayed, how he believed in God, and told a story about how a crucifix given him by his Grandmother when he was young would protect and help him in baseball games as a youngster. It was not clear if Governor Richardson has a relationship with God. It was hard to tell if he took his faith seriously. I may be wrong but I believe it would have been better to be honest about this as many will be confused.

In the initial outset I liked Governor Richardson, he was one of the candidates I was even willing to consider supporting, but after this particular discussion, I believe that for myself, and many people of faith that take faith issues seriously, they will loose some respect for Governor Richardson. Of all of the candidates, this discussion may have hurt him more than any other.

The next Democratic Presidential candidate to discuss their faith was Senator Chris Dodd. He started off the conversation brilliantly when discussing how talking about ones faith, if not natural could end up hurting themselves. I was impressed with Senator Dodd’s ability to speak freely and comfortably about his faith and belief in the Roman Catholic Church. He also spoke of how his wife was Mormon. He spoke about how his children would eventually have to make decisions of their own and the importance of it being their decision. I also liked the thought that a person’s faith is what drives their decisions and belief system. Senator Dodd on this point illustrated how his involvement with the Peace Corps in the 1960’s was driven by faith. There was comment about the social consciousness driven by the Catholic Church, and that a part of his faith was to address the social consciousness as opposed to the individual confrontation in certain areas. He seemed to recognize the need to do this in certain areas as he addressed needed policy to look at areas such as violence in television, movies, and video games.

When asked about his position on homosexuality Senator Dodd discussed his views of how he felt homosexuality was not a sin and how he supported gay unions. Senator Dodd stated that he viewed his position as somewhat different as the church and that his view of spirituality was driven by how you treat people. One could argue that he took a more humanistic approach to the concept of “sin” and issues such as homosexuality, abortion and other areas where he had differing views than the Church.

I will comment some on the Senators position on abortion. He was clear that with the law being what it is, that he thought it important to find ways to greatly reduce abortions. He spoke quite effectively here on the need to find ways of treatment, assistance and other programs that would reduce the number of abortions. While he recognized this was a differing view, the support of abortion, from his church, he discussed the need to address the issue within the laws that currently existed.

I came into this not knowing a lot about Senator Dodd. I must state while I disagree with some of the positions, (as I do all the candidates) I was impressed with his eloquence, and his ability to articulate his views. He impressed me as someone who may be a good leader and possible to bring people together. I don’t know how the faith community will view him though. I think some of the areas will bother some, yet the ability to lead and articulate his views will bring others in. Senator Dodd is the only candidate that if I had to say how he did I would say it is a toss up.

Lastly in the discussion on faith was with Democratic Presidential Candidate Senator Dennis Kucinich. Of all of the candidates, I likely had one of the lowest initial opinions of Senator Kucinich. In some ways, his comments quickly changed my position. Senator Kucinich has been seen as the peace candidate and the war opposition candidate. That is where the discussion started.

As one with Anabaptist leanings I was somewhat impressed with Senator Kucinich’s view on the importance of love as opposed to an attitude of hate. He spoke about the need to incorporate peaceful policies and objectives in government as opposed to oppositional perspectives that cause conflict. One of the things Senator Kucinich looked at when addressing this was more of a universal world view as opposed to a specific individualistic national view. On this topic, he will gain support from some within the faith community, while loosing support from others. I suspect the majority of those taking issue with a position like this will be people who never supported him to begin with.

A reoccurring theme that continually came up and again supported by Senator Kucinich was the issue of “not whether God is on our side, but are we on God’s side.” This is a somewhat interesting concept that causes one to think. It is one that could potentially cause some people of faith to rethink their positions on several issues and candidates. I can’t help but think this is a strategy used by the Democratic Party which is one of the reasons it came up so often during the two programs, at least 4 times at my counting. In this discussion Senator Kucinich spoke about how truth, peace, love, social, and economic justice are also issues of faith that should be addressed. Senator Kucinich alluded to the point that as people of faith, if these are issues of faith, then people of faith have some responsibility to live up to God’s expectations. An interesting point was the point that nations also had responsibility to live up to God’s standards.

One of the things Senator Kucinich promoted was the need to develop a Department of Peace and Non Violence using the teachers of great religious leaders like Jesus Christ, Gandhi, and others to develop a system and program that looked at ways of promoting peace in all types of situation, from world politics, domestic issues, racial violence, violence in the schools, violence against gays, and even family violence among others. He was specific to point out how a nation founded on Christian principles should follow these Christian principles and how we needed to see them as a way to practice our faith. In some ways, the incorporation of Christian principles, for a specific cause, hasn’t been spoken about more by any other candidate than this Senator Kucinich. If thought about, this could be one of the most controversial positions taken by any candidate. I have to admit, on these issues, on the Department of Peace and Non Violence, Senator Kucinich promoted that addressing the conflicts and needs within our own country, we could begin to see a “healing hand” bring the American people together.

Senator Kucinich also spoke about the sacrifices of those who have died in Iraq and other wars. He spoke of how their sacrifices, under all circumstances need to be seen as being pure and for love of country. He also stated that the President of the United States has an obligation to see to it that those making those sacrifices should never have their lives put on the line for anything other than the defense of our country. On this point Senator Kucinich alluded that our country was involved in a war we got into under false pretenses. He quoted scripture here, rather freely when stating, “That which is crooked can not be made straight.” He was open and blunt about the need to get out of Iraq immediately and that we were there for the wrong reasons.

When asked about the role of faith and the emphasis being placed on it Senator Kucinich was clear that he felt faith was a deserving issue of discussion. He emphasized that people not only look at what a particular candidate may say regarding faith, but how they live their faith. He was essentially saying that politicians have an obligation to let their faith drive and influence their actions. He also commented that there can never be enough emphasis placed on faith and that the founders of America intended there to be an open discourse and discussion on issues of faith and spirituality. While he recognized that there should be separation of Church and State, he also emphasized that the separation of Church and State was never intended to separate us from spiritual values.

Senator Kucinich also addressed his differences with the Roman Catholic Church. Specifically in the area of abortion he stated we as a country need to do everything necessary to prevent and reduce the number of abortions. One of the ways to do this was to provide programs such as prenatal care and more help for the mother, as well as the need to increase and promote the concept of adoption. He stated that with the incorporation of these and other programs we could develop a system where the number of abortions would be greatly reduced and he felt that on this issue many could come to a point of being united.

He was brief, due to time, on the issue of homosexuality but pointed to the Constitution and the fact that all people should be treated equal according to the law. On this point Senator Kucinich pointed out that whether gay or straight, all people are children of God and should be treated accordingly.

I have to say, I was impressed with the tone, and convictions of Senator Kucinich. He freely included Scripture in a natural way in his discussion with Paula Zahn, and freely spoke about faith and the importance of people of faith impacting society. Many looking at this who are strong fundamentalists or conservatives will not consider voting for Senator Kucinich no matter what because of what are perceived as liberal ideas. For those who are centrists though or are looking at other points of faith, they will be attracted to what Senator Kucinich promotes. He was the clear winner of those interviewed on the Paula Zahn show. I wish he had been on the first program with the top 3 candidates as he would have influenced many more persons who are looking at faith issues.

While it seems like much of the media was focused more on Senators Clinton and Obama, I couldn’t help but admire the presentations of Senator Edwards and Senator Kucinich as I felt they were the clear winners of the discussion in regards to influencing people of faith. I was also impressed and think a great reminder for all of us was the words of Jim Wallis as he quoted Jesus towards the end of the first discussion. This was stated in the context of the reality that many focus on a single issue, (as have I in the past) such as abortion, gay marriage, prayer in school and so forth. We were reminded that being a Christian is about much more than a single issue. This is exemplified in the first words of Jesus as he begin his ministry as is outlined in Luke 4: 18, 19

Luke 4: (18) "The Lord's Spirit has come to me, because he has chosen me to tell the good news to the poor.
The Lord has sent me to announce freedom for prisoners, to give sight to the blind, to free everyone who suffers, (19) and to say, `This is the year the Lord has chosen.' "

Yes from the words and mission of Jesus, as spoken about himself, there are many more issues than just a few that we commonly hear about. May God grant us the ability to make wise decisions and seek after his will and his direction.

It is my understanding that a similar format will occur with the Republican candidates. If able to catch it and find out when it is on, I will comment on their presentations as well.

In closing, I hope this has been of some value. I have to say, for me, the clear winners were Senator John Edwards and Senator Dennis Kucinich. Both had views and positions I liked, but I was more so impressed with the natural flow of their conversation and the obvious perspective that the issues being discussed were critically important to them. I could trust them on what they said, whether I liked it or not. For all people who are concerned about spiritual issues, this debate should have been a must watch. Thankfully as long as the topic of spirituality and faith are on the talking points, we will all be better informed to make the decision we need to make in America.
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Tuesday, June 5, 2007

The Virtual Pew Wrestling Essay Scholarships

Please Note, this year, 2008, we are trying to raise $500 for the Essay Scholarship, and additional funds for a camp as mentioned below. Also note, this year the contest requires a 300 Word Essay that meets all of the following rules.

I am pleased to announce the first annual The Virtual Pew Wrestling Scholarship Essay Winners. The Virtual Pew is a ministry that seeks to serve The Lost, The Last, and The Least. We are also actively involved in the wrestling community by providing Church on the Mat Worship Services for various tournaments. One of the presentations we provide is Wrestling With God, a presentation that has been published internationally and used on various web sites around the world. To learn more about The Virtual Pew, visit our web site at http://www.thevirtualpew.com/.

The Virtual Pew Wrestling Scholarship Essay was based on the following rules: The scholarships will be determined by an independent group of judges. Qualified candidates will be a resident of Kansas, and be of any ages who are wrestling in summer events. Candidates will write a maximum 300 word essay that describes their need and the impact and benefit of wrestling on their life. Contestants will release the use of the essays for The Virtual Pew to possibly use all or part on various blogs, articles, and on various wrestling forums. Essays can be mailed, to The Virtual Pew, P.O. Box 17731 Wichita Kansas 67217, or emailed to mike@thevirtualpew.com with wrestling scholarship essay in the subject line. Scholarships will be awarded as follows. 1s place $150, 2nd place $100, 3rd place $50. Anyone desiring more information can contact Mike Furches at mike@thevirtualpew.com or phone contact at 316-258-3952 or 620-545-7029. The deadline for receipt of the scholarship application essays is June 1, with prizes being awarded June 5. (note if amount received is more than $300 we will break down the financial awards accordingly. 100% of all money received will go to the wrestling essay scholarship winners plus the possible camp this year. Also note the following was added for this year.

This Year The Virtual Pew will once again be having a essay contest to help wrestlers who summer wrestle. A link to last years essay contest follows: http://thevirtualpew.blogspot.com/2007/06/virtual-pew-wrestling-essay.html

The hope this year is to offer $500 in scholarships, plus hopefully have several coaches and wrestlers to assist with a mini camp for wrestlers based on financial ability. If enough support, and to help defray costs, we will offer this camp on a sliding scale. We will still need some to help with some costs associated.

If we don’t raise the $500, then we will guarantee awards in the amount of $300 or up to $500 which ever is on hand for this award.

Please note, wrestlers applying for the essay scholarship, will need to write a 300 Word Essay (last year was only 250 words), note, as we did last year, anything over 300 words will be penalized in the judging. Also, see the link provided above for other detailed rules. Rules will be the same with the exception of if money coming in is more than $300.

This scholarship is offered by The Virtual Pew in memory of Tyler Graebner and is intended to help promote Kansas Summer Wrestling for low income or needy youth involved in wrestling. To learn more about Tyler you can click on one of the following links:

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The Virtual Pew Wrestling Scholarships, and ministry and support of individuals in the wrestling community is something we plan on doing on a regular basis, any individual that would like to designate gifts to The Virtual Pew for these purposes may do so at the above addresses. Annual scholarships and ministry opportunities will go out to various individuals based on funds through the year that have been donated and designated for these specific purposes. Our hope and desire for the moment is to provide additional opportunities for Kansas Wrestlers. The Essay Scholarship program is done in memory of Tyler Graebner, a 8-year-old from Hutchinson Kansas who lost his life to cancer. Tyler through his love and dedication to wrestling inspired thousands across America as he battled and ultimately lost his challenge with cancer. In memory of Tyler the scholarship will be an annual award to remember the benefits and hopes that can come through the sport of wrestling. Anyone interested in contributing to this award or for other wrestling related ministry may make contact at the above addresses or give online by clicking on any of the photographs or the giving link below. If giving on line, please indicate in the text message what the gift is for and designated for.

The Virtual Pew in this award sought out the assistance of various individuals in the wrestling community coming from various walks of life. From Internationally Recognized Gold Medal Winners, NCAA All-Americans, Professional Business Persons, Professional Publications, Public Speakers, International Ministry Directors and Wrestling Enthusiasts across the country. No person from Kansas, no one directly associated with The Virtual Pew, was involved with the judging. All essays were presented to the Judges with all names removed from the essay. Essays were judged by the directive, a maximum of 250 words, and the essay inclusion of their need and the impact and benefit of wrestling on their life. Age was not a restriction, and unless age was mentioned in the essay, the judges were not aware of the age of the contributor. Penalties were assessed by the judges based on the essays ability to follow the rules and guidelines.

The essay contestants involved a 1st – 3rd place cash award to be applied toward summer wrestling expenses. There was a tie for 3rd so the $50 award for that prize will be split among the two which tied. The following are the winners of the essay awards from 3rd place through 1st. Congrats to all winners and thanks to those who contributed essays to this competition, and a special thanks to those who contributed the financial funds to fund these scholarships.

Third Place Winners,

James Fox - $25, Hunter Roberts - $25.

Wrestling, College, and Me
James Fox

Wrestling has had a major impact in my life. I believe I am a better person and in a better position in life because of wrestling. I have wrestled one year in college and plan to continue wrestling in college for at least the next three years.

I started wrestling in the second grade for the YMCA. Since then I have wrestled for Douglass kid’s club, Central Kansas, The Kansas Wizzers and Douglass High School. I was headed down the wrong path in life during high school. Wrestling is what got me out of that rut and I will always love wrestling and be grateful for what it has done for me.

I followed my passion for wrestling into college at Pratt Community College. I was on the NJCAA All-Academic team having a accumulative GPA of 3.11. I was also a NJCAA national qualifier and once ranked 6th overall in JUCO at 133.

My love for wrestling is still strong. Unlike many guys who have been giving their heart to wrestling for ten years, I have only been giving mine for only two. I m still very hungry and so far from being burnt out that I think it gives me an advantage. I am continuing my college education and love for wrestling at Newman University. At Newman I plan to keep at least a 3.0 GPA and eventually become a Division II All-American in wrestling. The toughest part of this essay was to write about something I am passionate about in only 250 words.

Thank You,
James

Hunter Roberts

Hey, my name is Hunter I live in Hiawatha KS. I am 11 years old. I wrestle all styles of wrestling and have placed 1st, 4th, 4th, 5th, and 8th nationally. I have won Kansas Freestyle State 2 times and 2 times in Greco. I got third in freestyle 1 time .I have been wrestling freestyle and Greco for 4 years. I think wrestling will someday get me into a major college I would like to go to either OSU or ISU. Wrestling makes me spend a lot of time with my dad I don’t think I would spend half as much time with my dad if I didn’t wrestle. I also think I am a whole lot healthier than I would be. Wrestling helps me pay attention to what I’m doing because in wrestling you get yelled at for goofing off or spacing out. It has really helped me in the classroom because wrestling gets you disciplined. Wrestling in my opinion is the toughest sport there is and I’m not a wimp because of how tough wrestling has made me. I think wrestling has taught me to eat healthy.

If I would qualify for one of the scholarships I will use the money you give me to go to national tournaments this summer like the Southern Plains and the Kids Freestyle/Greco Nationals in Green Bay, Wisconsin.

Thank You,
Hunter


Second Place Winner
Nathan Furches - $100

I am writing to be considered for one of the summer wrestling scholarships. Wrestling has opened many doors for me in life. It is a great sport which teaches a lot of valuable lessons, such as discipline, courage, respect, honor, and friendship. Wrestlers are disciplined in the areas of maintaining weight, tough practices, and never giving up. Through this discipline I have gained courage to face hardships and opposition. I have learned that respect is very important to make it anywhere in life, from the wrestling mat to getting a job. I honor my sport because of all the things it has taught me. Throughout my wrestling career, it has opened many doors to travel around the country where I have made many good friends, and hopefully someday to make friends all over the world.

My overall dream for wrestling is to some day make the Olympic wrestling team, and hopefully win. Wrestling has opened the door for me to have the honor of getting to go to the Olympic Training Center. My ultimate dream is to wrestle in the Olympics one day. Wrestling has taught me great discipline and helped prepare me for life in general. I’ve learned a great deal of respect for opponents.

It cost approximately $900 to participate in these summer wrestling events. I am unable to work due to practice schedules, camps, and tournaments. My family does not have the money to pay for all the expenses. I would appreciate any scholarship money that I could receive.

Thank You,
Nathan

First Place Winner
Gage Deere - $150

Hello, I am Gage. I would like to apply for consideration for a Virtual Pew Wrestling Scholarship.

Wrestling has been in my life even before I was born. My dad was a high school wrestling coach and many of my earliest memories are of hanging out on the mat. I looked up to these guys and thought they were the toughest, strongest and coolest boys on the planet.

Many times the team seemed to be a magnet for kids who struggling in many aspects of their lives. Often, I saw my dad stay after practice and work with any of the boys needing some extra work. These weren’t always the stud wrestlers, in fact, quite the opposite. These were the guys who were struggling, sometimes with wrestling, sometimes with personal problems or homework.

I started competing at age 4, I had no idea what I was doing, but I was with the cool guys and having fun. I realized a couple years later that I had not won a single match for two seasons. I did not feel like a “loser” though and looking back now, it was being part of a team, being with my family and truly having fun that was important.

When I was 8, my parents both changed careers to work with at-risk kids in group homes. We have been able to incorporate wrestling in to other kids lives. Sometimes this is supported, but often it is not. My old shoes and singlets are handed down and around and we fund-raise and work tournaments to allow me and any others to do national events or go to camps. I have seen many of my “other-brothers” impacted positively by being associated with wrestling. I would appreciate your consideration.


Thank you!
Gage

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Thursday, May 31, 2007

They Don't Understand, Sawyer Brown

Time for another video from the Three Wooden Crosses 11 Inspirational Videos From Today’s Top Country Artists. Next on the video series is another I will have to come back to after I download it, that one will be Wynona Judd’s I Can Only Imagine remake of the song made popular by Newsong. I actually love her rendition but I promise that today’s video won’t be a disappointment for those that take the time to see it. Truth is the song; They Don’t Understand is in my opinion, not just a good song, but a great song. It exemplifies everything that The Virtual Pew tries to address in the lives of people, and everything that I believe Christians should be doing in society.

They Don’t Understand does something that all forms of music needs to address more; it addresses real life situations of people who are hurting. At its heart is the attempt to get those on the outside looking in to understand The Lost, The Last, and The Least all the more. Some call these the downcast, the downtrodden, the outcast, and you likely get the idea by now. To be simply blunt here, this song is brilliant in what it attempts to do. It is a song I would personally love to see a ton of discussion come about from because at that point I know that people would be facing the issue that so many within the church seems to ignore. I would love to see people talk about those who are having a tough time, people addressing how it feels when others don’t understand the situation they are in and the other various forms of discussion that can come about. Sometimes maybe just sharing an experience you have gone through, or known someone else that has gone through. In the talking about these things comes knowledge and often times healing. I know the truth is, many are hurting, and in some ways, even spiritually, dying because no one is there to lend a shoulder to cry on, or an ear to hear someone who needs to share their heart and the difficulty they are going through. All of us need people who understand the tough times we are going through, and sometimes all we need is someone to listen.

There is another brilliant and even spiritual concept this video specifically addresses. It shows us that when we think no one else is there, Jesus is there to be all we need him to be. It amazes me that this, another popular Country artist, is willing to sing a song that is so strongly supported by faith, faith in a savior that does understand, one that does care.

Today’s blog will be a little bit different; I am posting the lyrics prior to the video, then a brief comment about the song and then the video. Please read the lyrics, the comments, and then watch the video and comment.

Sawyer Brown
They Don’t Understand

A mother riding on a city bus
kids are yelling kicking up a fuss
everybody’s staringnot knowing what she's going through
somebody said don't you even care
and do you let them do that everywhere
she slowly turned around, looked up and stared.
She said, "Please forgive them
they've been up all night
their father struggled but he finally lost his fight
he went to heaven in the middle of the night
so please forgive my children they don’t understand."

Chorus:
Everybody's busy with their own situation
everybody's lost in their own little world bottled up,
hurried up, trying to make a dream come true
they don't understand
everybody's livin' like there ain't no tomorrow
maybe we should stop and take a little time
cause you never really know what your neighbor’s going through
they don't understand.

A man driving on the interstate
slowing down traffic making everybody wait
everybody’s staring not knowing what he's going through
somebody honked from the passing lane
yelling out the window "hey I ain't got all day"
the old man looked around and he caught his eye.

He said, "Please forgive me you know it's been a long life
my wife has passed away and my kids don’t have the time
I've been left all alone
and it's getting hard to drive
so please forgive me, children
they don't understand."

Chorus:

Everybody's busy with their own situation
everybody's lost in their own little world bottled up,
hurried up, trying to make a dream come true
they don't understandeverybody's livin' like there ain't no tomorrow
maybe we should stop and take a little time
cause you never really know what your neighbor’s going through
they don't understand

A man hanging on a wooden cross
giving everything to save the lost
everybody's staring not knowing what he's going through
somebody said "you don't have a prayer
if you're the king come on down from there"
the man just turned his head
looked up and stared
He said "please forgive them for they have not seen the light
but they'll come to know me when I come back to life
and go to heaven to make everything all right
so please forgive your children
they don't understand

Chorus:

Everybody's busy with their own situation
everybody's lost in their own little world bottled up,
hurried up, trying to make a dream come true
they don't understand
everybody's livin' like there ain't no tomorrow
maybe we should stop and take a little time
cause you never really know what your neighbor’s going through
they don't understand

A mother riding on a city bus
kids are yelling kickin’ up a fuss
everybody’s staring not knowing what she's going through


Copyright © Dean and Teresa Johnston, Steve Miller and Jeff Woods


I want to challenge you, where are you at in your life? Do you ever feel like there are people who either don’t care or don’t understand? Truth is I have been there myself more than I would ever want to admit. The other sad truth is, that unfortunately those who have experienced the purist of love for some reason don’t feel compassion enough to share that love with others who need it. On behalf of all Christians, I ask those that need someone to understand to forgive me, forgive us for not loving you in the way that Jesus has commanded us to love.

Now enjoy, be challenged, and be moved to not only share the times you need others to understand you, but to be challenged to also try and understand what others are going through.

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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Diets, The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

Okay, are you ready for this; I am on a pretty serious and new diet. The diet is the 6 Week Michael Thurmond Body Make Over. The diet guarantees my wife and I to lose 30 or more pounds each in 6 weeks and so far, three days worth, it isn’t the easiest thing on the planet to follow. Now I have mixed emotions from a variety of directions regarding this diet. There is the good, the bad, and the ugly. Let’s start out with the ugly.

The truth is I am kind of ticked at how I have let my body get in the last number of years. I was a college athlete and played football and soccer in college. I tried basketball but it was just too hard going right into basketball from football. I never played soccer until in college and wish I had it all to do over again as I picked up the sport very fast and was pretty good. After college I played competitive soccer, including 6 years on a semi-pro team. I was playing on a Division A, or Premiere League soccer in Tulsa when I was 36. For those that don’t know much about soccer, that is impressive. I was playing with college aged players, and many of them were quite good. Not only was I playing against and with them, but holding my own still doing very well. I also coached some High School teams and have such fond memories of those years.

I was always chunky growing up but prior to going to college I decided to get myself into shape. I still have a lot of photographs but between all the running, the weight lifting and more, I looked and was in pretty good health. I love it when my son looks at those photos and says to me, “Pops, you were buff.” Coming from a physical specimen like him I am reminded of who I was, and what I have become. I continued my athletic involvement after college, but not after some relapse. I allowed myself to get out of shape pretty badly, up to 297 pounds from 185 pounds when I played soccer and football. I decided to get busy and did just that, I got down to 205 pounds and at 7% body fat. It was during these times while working out religiously on the Cybergenics and Weider weight lifting programs. I was taking all the right supplements, (except for ephedra) and playing soccer, and doing a ton of cardio. I got to a point where I was in the best shape of my life, not bad for someone in their mid to late thirties.

Just as I thought things were going great, disaster hit. I went to a point where I was lifting weights on Saturday to a soccer game on Tuesday when I left all of the great progress and years of dedication behind. I was doing my pyramid set of weights at the Tulsa Eastside Gym. I started out with my warm up of 15 reps at 135 pounds on the bench press. I would pyramid up to a final set of 265 at 4 reps... The full pyramid sets included 6 sets going from lower weight to heavy weight, little rest between sets, and going to maximum failure where I couldn’t do the exercise. I would have a one minute to one and a half minute rest and start the next set. I knew I was in trouble when I couldn’t get 4 reps of my warm-up set at 135 pounds. I tried the work out that day, but my shoulder was in excruciating pain.

This was bad news but I figured I could at least run. It was on the following Tuesday that my team Hilti International had a game, a premier division game. It was in that game that I was playing as a midfielder, and forward. As I was chasing down a player to defend I tore my hamstring. For a period of 6 weeks I couldn’t lift, and couldn’t run. I got into a really bad habit and got really lazy, no excuses, but the years I had worked to develop an incredible habit of staying in shape was torn apart with two injuries within a week. The really bad thing is that I let the power of those injuries take over the years of work I had done. How many times have any of us done anything like that, worked so hard for something, then just let it go with a temporary set back. My weight went back up to about 285. Over the last year or so I have tried to get my weight down and it is down now to about 275. This is a lot more weight than I want to carry and I can’t do the fun things I used to do. To me, my body, a temple from God, had become ugly. It was time to do something about it, I don’t want the setbacks be what determines my life and my progress.

Now let’s look at some of the things that are bad regarding this diet thing.

First, I don’t know how to say it, but diet food and healthy food sucks with the exception of some of the summer fruits which I really love. I would really like to have right now, this very instance, a Georgia Mud Pie Blizzard from Dairy Queen, but…., it seems like foods like that, which really taste good aren’t on my diet. Now don’t get me wrong, I would have been happy today with a salad with dressing on it, not a ton, just enough for flavor, but on the diet I am on, this is a no go. It seems as if it is that way with a lot of foods. It isn’t that I have been hungry, but I have had terrible cravings. I guess I am learning lessons about letting the set backs control my life. If doing the right things, maintaining the right ways, I could enjoy these types of things on occasion, but unfortunately just like all of us, sometimes drastic measures are needed to bring about drastic change. Of course none of us like those drastic changes, we might even see them as bad, but that don’t change the reality of where we may be at.

Another thing is that I happen to have a body type that holds onto everything. One reason for that is being diabetic, my body just doesn’t respond to certain foods in the right way. Another thing is my poor metabolism, although that has improved since my gall bladder surgery some months ago. I’ll tell you, there are times things are miserable. Now don’t get me wrong, I have done the weight cutting and weight loss thing in the past, but it has never been fun. I know I need to remind myself that food is fuel, but sometimes food is really good too. One of the challenges all of us have to face is the need to understand moderation and controlling our actions with wisdom and smart decisions. On that point, I know I haven’t always been the smartest kid in the class, but I do have enough sense to know that I am responsible for the decisions that got me to the place I am at. When we can all address issues in our lives and make the needed improvements, then we will ultimately find joy in something other than the things we crave in our weak points.

I realize a person can’t have it both ways. I hate being sedentary, I love the outdoors, camping, sports, and all of those guy types of things, I don’t believe getting older implies you have to give those things up. For me though, being over weight plays on all of this, it plays on the types of things I can do, and more importantly it plays on my health. The older I get, the more I realize I want my health, I can indulge on occasion with food, but I know from my experiences, I can easily get out of the habit of taking care of the body, God has given me. I also know that the family tends to go down the same path as the weakest member of the family. It is why my wife is doing the diet with me; it is also why we have both fallen off the track regarding taking care of ourselves. Our goal is to be okay with getting out in a bathing suit towards the end of July, this will give us a huge part of the summer to enjoy the summer, and the exercise is easier during this time of year.

Now let’s go and look at some of that which is good;

One of the best things we were a lot of searching, purchase of a program, not inexpensive, that we know research backs and where the program works. This is important because we took the first step. I learned a long time ago, we can all dream, but dreams are of little value if we don’t act on those dreams. On this, both my wife and I are working. We have started the process that includes both diet and exercise. Simply put, we are watching what we put in our bodies, and making sure that we are doing the exercise necessary to help our bodies. Each of us, if we recognize the things that need to occur in our lives will be better off but sometimes we never get there because we don’t take that first step to make the needed improvement, whatever that improvement may be.

There is more good that happened though, we should never loose site that we recognized a problem. So many people just ignore all of the things going on in their lives, whether it be their weight, their attitudes, their temperament, their love affair, and on and on. One has to be willing to look at themselves with a discerning eye. How are they doing, not just in one area but all areas? When you get to the point you can do that, it is a good thing, because at that point one can begin to make the improvements needed. This isn’t just true for me and my family, it is true for all of us.

I know I am now on this journey to better health. I am on it with my wife, and I am on it with you. At least from the perspective you can help hold me accountable, accountable with things like questioning my progress, questioning and challenging me to keep eating right, and on and on and on. That is a good place to be, it kind of exemplifies where family and faith can come together, coming together to where friends become like family, not only in relational ways, but practical ways. Of course I don’t expect the journey to always be fun, but I do know that if I stick to it, bear it out, the end results of where I am going is a much better place than where I am at now.

What is the journey you need to look at taking? What are the things holding you back from the good? Are you willing to take the necessary steps? Are you willing to partner and help others out? I hope so, for none of us are perfect, and we are all on this journey. It just so happens that for the moment, taking care of God’s temple is a part of my own journey. We each have our own journeys though, where is yours taking you?
Here are a couple of videos for you today that are appropriate for the article, as with both of them, if you don't see the video click on the link, but, if the video is there, just click on the video.

This one appropriate for the whole family




This one is pretty good, but may have material that is offensive to some. It does address some serious issues in a comedic way.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=at3_Hol15dQ










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Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Craig Morgan That's What I Love About Sunday


A couple of weeks ago I got to go with my wife to see Craig Morgan in concert at the Wichita River Festival. In the past I have been very disappointed in this festival but this year they had some great entertainment and I knew after reading the lineup that if I only went to one evening of the festival it would be to see Craig Morgan.

Craig Morgan has had a number of hit songs and none no bigger really than the song, That’s What I Love About Sunday. It is the fifth song featured on the DVD Three Wooden Crosses 11 Inspirational Videos From Today’s Top Country Artists. I will temporarily be skipping over the fourth song of that series, Jo Dee Messina’s Because You Love Me. I will have to download that video if obtaining permission to do so as it presently don’t exist on YouTube.

There are a lot of things I could say about the concert with Craig Morgan. I’ll be honest, from the outset I was skeptical that he would be outspoken about his faith. I knew he was a person of faith as he speaks about it quite often in the songs he has recorded. I was pleasantly surprised though when this Country Megastar didn’t only share some of his faith, but was outspoken in a non apologetic way about his relationship with Jesus Christ. Thousands upon thousands of persons in attendance heard from a man who loved to have a good time, but also placed his faith and his family in their proper places of priority. Amidst all of the cigarette smoke, beer drinking, and partying, we were having church.

I was waiting for Craig Morgan to perform the song that is the feature of today’s Three Wooden Crosses songs. I should have known better but I was pleasantly shocked and surprised when his band started off with a rendition of Amazing Grace prior to breaking into his mega hit That’s What I Like About Sunday. It wasn’t long before people holding their 22 oz glass of beer was swaying to the music singing along. I couldn’t help but wonder, if the church was as described in the song today, if many of these people might reconsider their own willingness to give faith another chance, or possibly even a chance for the first time.

I love this song for a variety of reasons, even though I didn’t grow up so much in church; I was partially raised in a home where church was critically important. On occasion I would go to church with my grandparents and learned to appreciate some of the things associated with this Sunday event and even church. It wasn’t just a time for church, it was a time about family, love, and relationship which I largely enjoyed. I would enjoy some of the times I visited the Greenwood Baptist Church in Johnson City where my grandparents attended, I would even enjoy some of the time there, but the real joy came from being at home after church, having a great meal, having a game of football or whatever sport was in season, and then falling asleep in front of the television from being tired and full, full from the great meal my grandmother always prepared. I can still smell and taste those meals of fresh green beans, macaroni and cheese, meat loaf or fried chicken, homemade biscuits with gravy, and on occasion one of my grandmother’s favorites, tomato pudding. She always had a dessert whether a homemade spice cake or freshly cooked from scratch banana pudding, I miss those days.

I never realized it until it was much too late, but the church experience, the visitations, the meals were all a part of what made Sunday’s special. I look back on those days and to be honest, I miss them, especially now that I am a Christian and the church part should and could mean so much more than it does. I loved the days when we always had company at my grandmas’ house, usually someone from church and sometimes a visitor. There were days when you could do that. I guess you still could but truth is we don’t. Church now is a place we go, and then as soon as it is done most folks go to their favorite restaurant. As a result we end up not building relationships, and more importantly, building memories. Even as one who wasn’t a Christian at the time, I can’t help but tell you I miss those days.

This is one of the things I love about this Craig Morgan song, it reminds us of what we used to have, of what Sunday’s used to be all about for some families. I believe it reminds us of what Sunday’s should still be. We can think of churches where Sunday is an event that you prepare for. You get the clothes ready the night before, you start the meal as a celebration of what has just occurred the night before, even getting up early on Sunday morning prior to going to church. I can still see my grandmother having it down to a perfect science. Lunch was always served within an hour after church and we all looked forward to it. I wish we still had the days where guests and other church members were invited to each others home to have a good meal, sit down, maybe on the front porch swing and visit a spell. Yea, those relationships those moments are worth remembering.

That is my little visit down the memory highway, check out the lyrics to the song, and then maybe share some of the memories of what church used to be like to you. Maybe of a meal at Grandmas’, maybe share a few things of how we can get that time back, a time where faith meant something, and friends were people you spent time with and cared about, not just someone you saw once a week at a Sunday morning service. Let’s talks about what we can do so we can love Sunday again.

Now check out the video, I love this one, if you don’t see a photo of the video, just click on the link, otherwise, click on the video to enjoy That’s What I Love About Sunday.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgyVKUJYHNk



Lyrics to That’s What I Like About Sunday

Raymond's in his Sunday best,
He's usually up to his chest in oil an' grease.
There's the Martin's walkin' in,
With that mean little freckle-faced kid,
Who broke a window last week.
Sweet Miss Betty likes to sing off key in the pew behind me.

That's what I love about Sunday:
Sing along as the choir sways;
Every verse of Amazin' Grace,
An' then we shake the Preacher's hand.
Go home, into your blue jeans;
Have some chicken an' some baked beans.
Pick a back yard football team,
Nothin' much of anything:
That's what I love about Sunday.

I stroll to the end of the drive,
Pick up the Sunday Times, grab my coffee cup.
It looks like Sally an' Ron, finally tied the knot,
Well, it's about time.
It's 35 cents off a ground round,
Baby. cut that coupon out!

That's what I love about Sunday:
Cat-napping on the porch swing;
You curled up next to me,
The smell of jasmine wakes us up.
Take a walk down a back road,
Tackle box and a cane pole;
Carve our names in that white oak,
An' steal a kiss as the sun fades,
That's what I love about Sunday,
Oh, yeah.

Ooh, new believers gettin' baptized,
Momma's hands raised up high,
Havin' a Hallelujah good time
A smile on everybody's face.
That's what I love about Sunday,
Oh, yeah.

That's what I love about Sunday,
Oh, yeah.

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Is United at the Cross Community Church Being Raised from the Dead?

There will be some who have no idea as to why the title of this blog, I challenge you to read on, others, will be struck by the title because you will have some idea and wonder what is going on, I know you will read on.

For a large part of my life I was not a Christian. In fact, I hated Christianity. You can read my book The Keystone Kid to learn more about my hatred and rebellion from the church. I grew up with specific attitudes about Christianity, Christians, and the Church. To be honest most of those were not positive, and truth is, much about them is still not positive. While I now love the Church, while I love Christians, there is much to work on not only for Christianity and the Church, but also with me.

I ended up getting saved a little later in life when I came to see Jesus for who he is, the lover and giver of my soul. I saw him as a judge but one who wanted the best for me. I also began as I got older to understand Jesus, God, and the Holy Spirit better as I begin to read “The Ultimate Love Book”, the Holy Bible. I saw and understood things as I had never understood them before. It wasn’t long before I began to realize that if the God, the Savior, the Church presented in the Bible was practiced like it was in the Bible, Christianity would be a lot more appealing to those like myself who was turned off by what they had seen..

A few years after my conversion to Christianity, latter in my high school and early college years I begin to work in the Christian music ministry. There was a lot of learning to take place, and it is one of the reasons I am so keen on the responsibility of the church to involve its people in a concept called discipleship. Discipleship is the process where followers of Jesus become as much like Jesus as possible. I didn’t know, or understand this process at first but came to know how important it was later in life.

It was during these early years that I felt God call me into ministry. That is something hard to explain but I had multitudes of people reaffirm this. Over the years a lot of things happened, I would follow that call for part of the time, then for part of the time stray away from it. It was in 2001 that I realized my need to fully commit myself to ministry. I left my job associated with Mental Health Rehabilitation and begin to explore my involvement in full-time ministry. At first I volunteered for the church I was attending as a full-time volunteer, and from there, ended up taking a pastors job at United at the Cross Community Church in Wichita Kansas.

Early on in the search I felt drawn to the church in Wichita. It was a church that was doing ministry in the type of neighborhood I grew up. There was a mixture of races, it was poor, and it was a church that had as its mission this community. I loved this little church although I would later find out there were multitudes of problems. I turned down a church in Benkelman Nebraska, Willow Creek in the Chicago area, and a church in Merced California. United at the Cross paid the least, $18,000 a year which I later requested be moved to $15,000 a year, minimal benefits, and it was an upstart church started by World Impact in conjunction with the Mennonite Brethren. It was the most racially diverse church in the MB conference, and was to the far extreme in the style of worship in its contemporary style. With all of my years in music and worship, this church at its peak was among the best worship experiences, with one of the best worship teams I ever experienced.

There were many issues with the church during the time I was there. My main concern was what I perceived to be a lack of support in regards to assistance, not financially, although that was an issue, but mainly in the area of providing maturity to help with the issues surrounding the church. Issues like most of our people coming out of backgrounds other than Christian that involved homelessness, gangs, prostitution and I could keep on going. In fact, it was the people, their backgrounds and the life transforming power of Christ that led me to this church. Yet, with those issues, the need for maturity was needed, as well as a continued financial support. Things were tough, and one of the mistakes I made was allowing people with little knowledge of these groups be involved in the leadership of the church. Truth is I didn’t do the training of some of these individuals I needed to do and when I did realize what needed to be done, it was too late. There was a lot more than that, a lot that I don’t take blame for that just made it difficult to survive.

There was a plan in place, a plan I felt would enable me to continue at the church, but one that would allow an inner city, multi racial, poor church to survive. We were looking at the incorporation of a team concept, which would allow me to better use my strengths and some within the church to better use, theirs. I have no doubt the process would have worked if we could have gotten the support we had requested from other churches. For whatever reason those churches didn’t see the need and didn’t help in the ways we had asked. I still have regrets about that because now, a little over a year ago, United at the Cross Community Church shut down. It shut down at the pain of me and the number of others who were still attending. I knew I needed to do what God was calling me to, and that I couldn’t do that, and do everything necessary to continue to pastor this church full-time. It was with that in mind, that the church closed its doors.

There are a number of the people associated with United at the Cross that I still maintain contact with, some on a weekly basis through either face to face, telephone, or the Faith in Film group I host here at my house. A number of them still ask about starting up a new church, with me being the pastor. In fact counting those from United at the Cross, and others there are around 25 – 30 who ask this. It is something I will continue to explore but for now am content in doing what God has called me to. I know God still desires ministry, but I am also sure God’s desire for the community of which United at the Cross was in never weaned. God gave an organization a vision of ministry for that neighborhood and community, I am confident that God still has those very desires. I believe now, looking back, it would have been best to fight for United at the Cross, to stay in existence with a few changes and continue. I have struggled with that since the church closed its doors. There are all kinds of reasons for those struggles.

With all of that said, with all of my concerns for this neighborhood, I have maintained a love and involvement in the South West Neighborhood of Wichita where United at the Cross was located. I have maintained The Virtual Pew address there because that is an area I still do ministry. My responsibility to that community did not end when United at the Cross closed its doors. That is part of what being a pastor is, you care about the relationships that have been built, despite those that walk away for whatever reason, despite those that didn’t follow biblical guidelines for whatever reason, despite whether I still live in the community or not, I made a commitment not only to the church, but to the community. Those who are not Christians see Christians do enough running away, it is time some of them saw Christians doing some running towards. I am reminded here of the parable of the Prodigal Son, in the end, love is illustrated initially by the desire to run to the one that was lost. I just don’t understand why churches, and church organizations don’t always see this.

God is good, God has a way of saying forget those who don’t honor commitment, if people don’t care then I will bring up a new people. God has a way of putting the call of ministry into the hearts of those who really are into ministry for ministry. It is with that being said that I was somewhat shocked, and even confused within the last few weeks. I was reminded by a prophesy one of the members of United at the Cross gave one week at church. That prophesy the individual gave came to be true, yet at the time people just ignored it, didn’t take it seriously. I honestly think that right now God is proving his word, and that prophesy to be true.

I have been attending a church plant named Mosaic as of the last months. Mosaic is a church that has been doing little things like going out of their way to show The Lost, The Last and The Least that they want to be Jesus to them. They have been doing things like feeding the homeless, providing hope to people hurt by the church and so much more. At a recent activity in Wichita, The Wichita River Festival, individuals were handing out stickers that said something like, “Forgive us as Christians for being such judgmental, hypocritical jerks. Mosaic a church for people who have given up on church.” I was blown away by this, it describes exactly the type of church that United at the Cross was, they are practicing the very things I believe in, in trying to be a church that ministers to the very people Jesus did. They are a church who seems to fully understand the vision and mission of The Virtual Pew.

I have plugged in at Mosaic, I am a part of the worship team, Nathan is going to youth group meetings, and Mary Jane starts teaching children’s church this month. The church has also supported The Virtual Pew and the ministry I am involved in. Recently they provided about a months worth of funds and they continue to offer prayer support for the ministry. In some ways you could say it has been a good marriage. That don’t mean things are perfect, they aren’t but they are good, and I am amazed at how this one church is carrying out the mission of what church is supposed to do. They have the support financially from other churches that have helped as well as help via people from those churches making commitments to help in leadership. Hope Community Church and others in the area have helped; I would encourage more, as I am certain this church is filling a need within the city of Wichita.

Now this is where God has been working on me, it is where he is working from the perspective that in some ways he is raising United at the Cross from the dead. Mosaic has been meeting at a local school, Robinson Middle School. There have been issues with that school, but good things as well. Recently due to some undue difficulties that were coming up, Mosaic decided to look at another location for church. I sill long for the day the church has its own space but for now, they decided on a place to start meeting this next weekend. It was to my astonishment at church a couple of weeks ago when I heard that Mosaic, at least for now, and until God says otherwise, is going to start meeting at Truesdale Elementary School. A school in the South West Neighborhood of Wichita, only a few blocks away from where I lived, and United at the Cross was located. God is in fact, placing this church, and placing me and my family once again, into the community he called us into when we first moved here in 2002.

Through all of this process I have struggled a little, struggled about going back into my old neighborhood, going back into an area where I saw so much promise but was hurt so much by an unwillingness of some to do things right. I could go on, but I am simply amazed, that in some form, the mission, and ministry I longed so much for in this community may be ready to take place. I can still be pastor to those involved with The Virtual Pew, as well as those seeking pastoral guidance, leadership, and help from the relationships over the years. I can see a ministry do the things I wanted, desired and prayed for in this community while at the same time, taking my own ministry desires to a new level. I can’t explain it, and the dead aren’t walking yet, but there is promise, promise that God still lives, and don’t abandon those he loves.

There are several things this week I can ask for, among the top of those is prayer. You can pray for The Virtual Pew, for Mosaic, and certainly for those who cared about the ministry that once existed with United at the Cross Community Church. There is also the ongoing need of financial support, not just for myself and the ministry of The Virtual Pew but also the ministry of Mosaic. I would ask individuals, churches and organizations to also pray that God continues to build the marriage of ministry between The Virtual Pew and Mosaic. Then I would ask, for those that supported United at the Cross Community Church to consider ways you can support this rebirth. Maybe it is by becoming involved in Mosaic, maybe it is by something else. I used to have a friend that walked the community with me, showing love to the community. I am still willing to do that but need partners. For those that are not a part of a church, or are maybe a part of a church who realizes that there is need for ministry that wasn’t fulfilled consider becoming a part of Mosaic as they take on this new area of ministry. Be a history maker, not one who just sits back and expects others to make it.

I could go on, but will leave it at that for today. It is a new week, a new day, and a new moment in ministry. I am pleased with the fact, that like I said earlier, God still has a special place in his heart for The Lost, The Last, and The Least. Now the question for you is what are you doing to serve those whom God cares so much about in your community? I know he cares, and I also know that if you care, he will raise up workers to get the job done. It is time for all of us to get off our buns, and make a difference, if not in South West Wichita, then where ever you may be located. It is time for the church to be the Church and quit making excuses. Are you listening?
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